How Do I Get Him Back Vital Information
How Do I Get Him Back is an 8-week program that aims to help women rekindle a relationship with a former husband or boyfriend. The program contains a series of steps, tips, and rules that supposedly calms a woman down and better prepares her for getting her man back.
The author, Bob Grant, is a Licensed Professional Counselor and therapist, and claims to have worked with women and relationship problems for over 18 years. As the author of numerous other articles and books on relationships, Bob is known as “The Relationship Doctor,” and is an occasional guest on TV and radio shows such as Marriage and Family Today, Singles World Talk Radio, The Dr. Robyn Show, and The Jaci Rae Show. Incidentally, Bob is also the author of the popular relationship development program “The Women Men Adore.”
How Do I Get Him Back Insider Look
The plan begins by asking women to first take care of themselves over the next eight weeks instead of focusing on the heartache. It enumerates eight overused tips, which include exercising regularly, eating healthy, going out with friends, and getting plenty of rest. The relationship program also prescribes using a somewhat cheesy technique called “Play It Out” for days when you may be feeling overwhelmed or scared. This technique involves jotting down your relationship-related fears, and essentially talking yourself out of them in written form.
The next part of How Do I Get Him Back lists down three relationship myths and attempts to dispel them, and also enumerates three predominant reasons why your man could have left you. According to the program, the possible reasons why your man may have left you (whether you buy into it or not) are because you were too helpful and accommodating, because you were too needy, or because you were too strong or rigid.
While the program takes into account that it’s possible for a man to break up with a woman even if the woman does everything perfectly right, it also states that it is possibly because a man has unresolved issues. It is therefore recommended that you take a closer look at a man’s dating history, his previous marriage, or even the number of times that a man may have been married in the past in order to get clues on his kind of dating behavior. A man could be classified as sincere but insecure, conservative and cautious, or simply the “bad boy” type who is charming and seductive yet hates women.
As part of the plan, it is recommended that you create a list of non-negotiable traits that you look for in a man and taking the time to truly list them according to priority. By identifying the top two or three qualities you are searching for, you should be able to find yourself being patient with him in other areas.
Once you’ve determined that the man is worth having back into your life, How Do I Get Him Back continues by telling you to wait for him to initiate some form of contact. You are not supposed to sit around idly, however — you are supposed to be taking care of yourself and surrounding yourself with your family and friends. Should he call, you are to keep in mind certain relationship rules, such as only talking for 10 minutes, and not talking about your feelings or your past together, among other things.
A number of tips are listed in the latter half of the program — one set for in case the guy calls, and another set of tips in case he doesn’t. These instructions include doing a little more reflection as to whether he really is the man for you, and basically telling him that if he doesn’t do anything, he’s going to lose you forever.
Packages and Pricing
$47, Standard Package
- “How Do I Get Him Back” eBook.
- Free 15-minute private phone consultation with the author – Bob Grant, L.P.C.
- “The Women Men Adore Club” 30-day free trial access.
Our How Do I Get Him Back Conclusion
Better Products for Your Consideration:
Do we think it is possible to give concrete tips and advice on how to successfully get a former husband or boyfriend back? Yes, of course. Do we think that this particular program did a good job of doing so? No, not really. Do we think that this program is worth its price of $47? No, most definitely not. For the reasons we state below, we give How Do I Get Him Back a rating of 1 out of 5 stars.
While we applaud How Do I Get Him Back’s efforts to help brokenhearted women out, we do feel that this 8-week program has very little to offer in terms of practical, actionable steps (especially considering that it’s a “How Do I” product). At the end of an 8-week period (of not doing a whole lot), you’re supposed to twiddle your thumbs and wait for your former lover to get in touch with you. Sadly, it’s not really a proactive approach in “getting him back” and a lot is left to chance of this happening.
Sure, you may earn some brownie points with your man simply by not being overly emotional and refraining from talking about your past. Unfortunately, not a lot of people can possibly steer away from being their true self forever. In any case, the rules mentioned in this program don’t increase the likelihood that he will call or contact you. This is really the first important reconciliation step yet something the program doesn’t help you with.
How Do I Get Him Back is full of commonly known tips, nonsense rules, and suggestions that are almost comical. We understand the sentiment of working to better yourself and make yourself more appealing to your man. However, the lack of practical and actionable steps to actually “get him back” when the title clearly states “How Do I Get Him Back” is a bit disappointing.
Oh yeah, if you believe in what’s said inside the program that you can get your guy back simply by wearing a dress and long earrings often. Well, a big good luck may be in order but your time and money is really better spent elsewhere.
Our Final Suggestion: Absolutely Don’t Buy How Do I Get Him Back
Submit your review